Summary
This section discusses critical considerations with regard to marriage and critical considerations in choosing a marriage partner.
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6.1. Critical Considerations with Regard to Marriage
- First Time Sex IS Marriage
Sexual Intercourse with a Virgin, Widow or truly Divorced woman is a Covenant Act and gives rise to a legally binding covenant in the Court of Heaven. Through shedding of the Virgin blood and / or through male ejaculate that contains the elements of blood.
- Principles of Yah’s Plan for Marriage Informs His Plan for Life
The principles of how marriage is intended to be directly inform how life as a whole is intended to be and how business life is intended to be.The Marriage and Life Teachings and Marriage and Life Strategic Analysis address this in detail see https://www.eti-ministries.org/heaven-on-earth-in-marriage
- Agreements at Moment of Consummation are Locked Down
Whatever the agreements and understandings that exist between a man and a woman at the moment of consummation (ejaculation) are locked down in indissoluble contractual terms in the Court of Heaven.In the absence of an agreement then Yah’s default terms apply – see https://www.eti-ministries.org/virgins-covenant-lost
- The Man as Head of the Woman
Unless covenanted otherwise the man is the head of the family unit and the wife is required to submit to him.Submission is a strong act of the will by a strong woman who understands the power of Yah’s One-Flesh House.Headship is NOT domination or ownership or any of the other abominations perpetrated by so many men against women.
- Work as a Family Commercial Enterprise
It is Father’s intention that a man and his woman / women and children should all work together in the family Business / Enterprise and Ministry and prosper together.
- Making Love Builds the One-Flesh Bond
The more that a man and woman make love passionately, considerately and tenderly the stronger the One-Flesh Bond and the more powerful they become as a spiritual entity on Earth whether in Yah’s service or in Satan’s service.
- Yah Created Sex Within Marriage to be Sacred AND Highly Pleasurable
Yah created Sex within Marriage to be Sacred AND Highly Pleasurable, there are NO limits on what may be enjoyed sexually within the confines of a righteous covenant relationship.You are intended to enjoy uninhibited, no holds barred, intensely pleasurable love making within your covenant relationship.Only do not cause pain, injury or distress.
- Man Can Covenant with More Than One Woman
We were created for one man to be able to covenant with more than one woman but most people in Western Society cannot do this successfully.The seal of virginity, the hymen, evidences that men are able to covenant with more than one woman and that women are only intended to covenant with ONE man.
- Powerful, Harmonious Union Required for Victory
Powerful, harmonious unions will be a vital foundation for building what is required for the present Turning Around to become solid and sustainable.
- The Satanic and Demonic Realm have Broken Down the Fundamentals
The Satanic and Demonic Realm have broken down the fundamentals of the union between man and woman with the specific objective of greatly weakening the body of True Believers.
6.2. Critical Considerations with Regard to Choosing a Marriage Partner
The following are key considerations when it comes to choosing a Marriage Partner:
- Must be an Anointed Believer
It is vital that a prospective marriage partner is also a True Anointed Believer.If they are NOT then walk away immediately.They should also be at a similar level of relationship with Yah and the man should preferably be closer than the woman.
- Similar Aspirations
It is vital that they have similar aspirations to yourself with regards to the Kingdom of Yah and Eternal Destiny.If you aspire to be a Friend of Yah they should do so too, else walk away.It is better to be single than unequally yoked.
- Seven Times More Women than Men
In the case of a woman seeking a man the man must be at least as close to Father as you are, else walk away.Be aware that there are seven (7) times as many women as men in the Body of True Anointed Believers so as a woman you may WELL NOT find a suitable husband.IF you DO find one then hold onto him.If you are unable to find a man then enter into a lifetime covenant relationship with a woman who is also serving Father.
- Marriage is a Covenant – a Contract
Marriage is a Covenant, a Contract.Courting, Dating, long Engagements are OUT if you are serving Father.Discuss your beliefs and aspirations and non-negotiables in depth.If you cannot agree then walk away.If you DO agree, commit in writing, consummate and spend a minimum of seven days together 24/7 building the foundations of your one-flesh house and making love passionately.
- Default Marriage Conditions
Consult the Article 2013.10.03 “The Virgin’s Covenant” on the Website main menu for more information and note specifically the default conditions from the Court of Heaven unless you Covenant differently.IF you want to Covenant differently you MUST do this BEFORE you consummate.
- Yah Intends Sexual Lovemaking to be Intensely Pleasurable
Yah intends Sexual Lovemaking IN Marriage to be uninhibited, unrestrained, joyful and highly pleasurable.Discuss this BEFORE consummation and if one of you has a radically different view point and you are unable to agree then walk away.
- Much from this Ministry on Marriage
There is much from this Ministry relating to the above, see the eBook “The Scriptural Definition of Marriage” in Volume 5 of the Book Set, the “Marriage and Anointed Life” teachings on the Website and also in Volume 10 and the “Strategic Analysis of Marriage and Life” in Volume 11 of the Book Set.The Book Set is available for download off the Website – item near the bottom of the menu.