2014.01.63.03 The need of Single Women for Companionship Created by James on 4/28/2019 9:00:21 AM The need of Single Women for Companionship
Why Companionship is so important for single believing women
Father Yah says that because there are seven times more believing women than men a large proportion of single believing women eventually are side tracked or fall away
Almost NONE understand the dynamics of their situation, that there are seven times more believing women than men, so they EXPECT to find a believing husband, they trust Yah for a believing husband and they fail and, in time, become discouraged
In the process most end up dating unsuitable men and the majority end up sooner or later having sex, their bodies crave sexual release and sooner or later their resistance weakens and they have a one night stand or end up marrying an unsuitable man as the only way that they can assuage their sexual craving
This is HIGHLY damaging, when one who IS anointed joins to one who is NOT anointed the anointing drains out of them, when that person has been fornicating and has multiple one-flesh bonds the damage is even greater
In the process love is created if the sex is moderately tender and now the woman thinks that she has "fallen in love" with the unbeliever or weak believer, this often ends in marriage and totally side tracks the woman, particularly if the man's demons start seeking to destroy her and lead her further astray. Many who fall into this trap never escape
Many become resentful towards Yah and even turn their backs on Him, because He has NOT delivered on what they consider to be His obligation - to provide a suitable man NOT knowing that it is NOT possible for Him to deliver, the men simply do NOT exist!
Problem is, when you do the maths, with seven times more women than men and many of the men unsuitable in terms of different social class, different age, different physical location, a moderately anointed highly committed woman will find herself in a situation where there literally are NO suitable men on the planet
Remember that she is commanded to SUBMIT to her man in everything so if the man is a weaker believer she comes in under his weak commitment to Yah and it becomes extremely difficult for her to maintain her position with Yah, particularly once the anointing has drained out and cannot be recovered because every time she worships the anointing immediately drains out through her man
Where the man is a nominal believer or NOT a believer his demons will also play up and try and destroy her leading to abuse and quite often violence, AND she is required to SUBMIT IN EVERYTHING, even if he beats her to death!
In such cases it is VITAL to understand that provided the woman recognizes her error, repents and asks Yah for a way of escape, Yah will ALMOST always grant a divorce
IF you are a single anointed believing woman, what do you do?
We are created to live in a close, intimate and caring family with a life time covenant but now we find tens of thousands of women around the world who cannot safely find a man
Yes, there ARE a few who DO find a suitable man but they are few and far between, the forces of darkness have gone out of their way to trap as many of the believing men in unsuitable relationships as well, again in such cases Yah will frequently grant divorce but that is material for another article
For such a woman to try and live alone is a challenge and fraught with difficulty, we NEED a life companion, someone to talk to, someone to share things with, to go places with, to shop with, to build a home with, to laugh with and cry with -- we expect to obtain this in a man-woman relationship {marriage} but now I am saying to you that virtually ALL anointed believing women CANNOT expect to receive this with a suitable man
Should they then settle for a weak believing man?
NO, because there are NOT even enough of those -- remember there are SEVEN times more women than men in the body of true believers
Should she try and find a "good" unbeliever and then trust Yah to convert him -- NO, it does NOT work, if he is NOT part of the body of believers now it is NOT likely that he will change, it IS possible but NOT likely -- IF you want to try this, then make sure he is converted BEFORE you have sex with him
Problem is that if you spend a moderate amount of time in each other's company your sexual urges WILL likely get the better of you, he might even profess conversion just to get inside your pants and you might discover, once you have consummated a covenant with him, that you have been conned!
Remember also that there are very charming men out there who are trophy hunters, they love to take the virginity of innocent women and mark it up on their trophy stick and post to their men friends about their conquests, they have NO interest in a life time committed relationship, ALL they want is your virginity!
They take particular pleasure in taking the virginity of Yah's daughters and their demons will do ALL they can to find you and lure you into the trap!
You are therefore left with four options:
1. Stay strictly single, crush your sexual urge and potentially end up a very bitter "old maid" who resents Yah for her loneliness
2. Join yourself to an unsuitable man and fall away or struggle to maintain some sort of commitment to Yah
3. Try to remain single but date and have the occasional one night stand to dissipate your sexual need, falling away in the process and getting into deeper and deeper sin
4. Find another way that gives you companionship and closeness without a man -- Yes, I said "get into relationship with another woman for life"
Many / most women who read this will be offended
I regret that is the reality
There are, in relative terms, LOTS of other single believing women like you with the same dilemma
Find one you get on with well and from a similar social background and age and enter into a covenant to be partners for life
Move in together, do things together, do everything a married couple would do
Yes, I said EVERYTHING
You CAN stop short of sex and sleep in different rooms but, IF you really get close the day WILL come when you cuddle up and share the same bed and, the day will probably come where you are sexually frustrated and do something about it and she finds out about it and one thing leads to another
There is NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT
Yah does NOT forbid it
Yah forbids sex between men because it corrupts the blood line and is an abomination
But Yah says NOTHING about two women in a permanent life time covenant relationship NOT having sex
In fact, as shocking as you may find it, He has CLEARLY said to me AND shown me that He created women to be able to do this AND that He approves of it
But, "Romans says", you say
Romans CANNOT introduce new legislation, Leviticus defines sexual sin and prohibits "a man from lying with a man as with a woman" but says NOTHING about women with women and anyway we are told NOT to rely on the book -- if you question my counsel, undertake seven three day fasts at one week intervals, pray for guidance, get on your knees, do whatever you have to do to get to a point where you KNOW Father's will, DIRECTLY
Before you utterly reject this counsel, please get a fix on the massive destruction that awaits you with the other options and the loneliness and the lost opportunities with Yah
... and then decide what you will do
You do NOT have to go all the way at first
Get yourself a close woman believer friend, you probably already have that friend?
Choose to spend more time with her and STOP looking for the men who do NOT exist and let things develop progressively over time
What about children?
Well, what about bearing the children of an unbeliever and getting locked into an abusive relationship in which the children suffer as well?
There are plenty of children on the planet, Yah is NOT concerned about more children
Yah IS concerned about the welfare of His daughters, turn to Him as your husband, turn to Him for provision
Focus on prayer and fasting and worship -- do ALL you can to draw close to Him, to walk in the power of His Spirit and do works of faith for Him
Who knows, if you REALLY put your back into it you may, in time, become a FRIEND of Yah -- that is MUCH more valuable and the rewards are MUCH higher
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